Gentlemen!  These tips are designed just for you!  The woman in your life most wants an emotional connection with you.  When she feels emotionally bonded with you she smiles more, laughs more, feels less stress and is much more affectionate.   So, for your enjoyment, here are ten tips to increase the connection emotionally with your love.

• Keep your commitments.  If you told her you’d be home at 7, be home at 7.  That honey do project you promised should be kept.  This is critical to building trust.

• Text message or call her during the day with a light and positive message.

• When you greet her at home, kiss her like a lover (with your eyes open and smiling with at her).

• Touch her gently and softly when you pass her in the room.  Whisper your love in her ear.

• View her as your special partner; demonstrate your affection with the highest honor.  (Even in front of friends and especially in front of your children.)

• Learn to be student of her body, explore her skin (massage her feet or entire body with a creamy lotion, watching the expressions on her face and in her eyes).

• When she wants to talk with you, look at her and validate what she feels.  Be empathetic with her.

• Read relationship building books and implement what you learn with her.

• When you see her number on your caller ID, answer your phone with a smile and tender words.

• Remember, she is the one that makes the jeans or sweater look great (not the garment making her look good).  Let her know you are proud of her.

You may have acted this way when you first dated.  She found you irresistible.  Connect with her emotionally and live your life and relationship passionately ever after!  For additional assistance, call…

Gary W. Gabbard, M.A., L.P.C.

Licensed Professional Counselor

At

214.618.8202